EMOTIPNAL ATTYACHAR

That day I was doing homework. Suddenly, my mind got great attention to that loud music played in mu neighbor’s home rather than in my work. I couldn’t catch up the clear lyrics of that song except two words- “emotional attyachar”. Then what ? I just kept my books and copies aside and just interested to think about emotional attyachar.
Totally, my mind was surrounded by lots of question. And there was no-one to give answers of my queries except google. So I immediately asked father google my queries. He said, ‘emotions… direct our attention, motivate our behavior and determine the significance of what is going on around us. My mind was distracted hearing hin theoretical language and I didn’t want to ask any more question related to attyachar, since I was familiar with this Nepal word and being Nepali….. simply, you can put the nickname of “emotional attyachar” as emotional pains.
Well, people can watch lots of movies of ‘emotional attyachar’ free of cost in their daily life, so called part i part ii…… and never ending. Lots of examples are there in our practical life, too. Planing as a main role/supportive character/director/some what else.
Let’s start with the family. Is there any discrimination between you and your brother? On you say you and your sister? Do your feel like they’re giving emotional torture to you? Like behaving rudely, hiding their great mistakes, again squaring your small mistakes and on live show to the parents, sometime black mailing you or say anything else. If you’re irritated by all there, then simply you call if\t an attyachar. But is this attyachar a big blast in front of the attyachar we give to our parents?poor parents, they’re ghreat victim of emotion attyachar. “ ok if you ‘re not giving me enough money. I a’m not going to study. I will do whatever I like.” Parents they just have to listen to those family dialogue of their children. Now in this advanced century, you can easily guess the future of modern love marriage based on emotion of love and the same emotion make them separate one day. Before marriage, you are completely blind in love, after marriage you have just doubt in same love. Finally, after getting package of emotional attyachar from partners, they simply get divorced. Those advertisement, firstly attract the  people, motivate and encourage them to smoking is injurious to health.’ If you think seriously, emotional appeals of those advertisements are really  giving emotional attyachar to the smokers. In the uncivilized society, there are many more reality show to be watched. Among them you see the innocent women being plumed as a witch ( dayan) and given the painful torture.
Whatever attyachar we Nepalese people have suffered till now, among them, the emotional  attyachar given by the politicians always stands in first position. Now, why not to talk about our branded politicians. Haven’t you heard the long Ramayan emotion speech of our politicians? Very much heart touching, is not it? Today, in front of the mass public they take promises since their work is just to make promises and they themselves are in dilemma about those promises they had made. Just taking great promises and zero output. Their long speech, great promises are playing energetically with the emotion of citizens. Actually, they’re fond of showing dreams but don’t have any interest to fulfill the dreams of citizens. This is what the true figure of emotional attyachar. That’s why the award of best emotional attyachar should be given to our politician. So, what are you planning? 

MUSIC AND ITS IMPACT IN THA YOUTHS

Music  has become an important part of our life. Scientifically, music means sounds which are soothing  our life ears and which have a good effect on one’s mind . the opposite word for music is noise. Music is very important. It connects different religions and different people. ‘music’ in English, ‘musique’ in French and ‘sangit’ in Hindi / Nepali, reaches every where to every heart . there are  not many people who don’t like music. I think no one.
Music really has an impact on people of all ages bit is has a great impact in the youth youngsters worship music they want to be the next rihana or dream of forming bands like green day  cold play, etc future. They initiate their music icons. They try and tend to copy their life style. It has become a trend or a custom now a days to chose between hip-hop and punk. If you chose hip-hop you dress up like them, listen to 50 sent, akon, linkin park, etc if you choose punk you keep on writing PONK NOT DEAD in every single location, classrooms, desks, soft boards, etc.
And lastly if you are none of the above, you’re an outsider, a disgrace to music every Hindi movie industry is becoming clever by the day. There’s a new a formula for films to be a hit i.e. good songs +great music =HIT!!No wonder our Nepali movies do not appeal to the audience as much as Hindi movies.
Mobile phones are ’ in things’ for teenagers. Before a complete phone had a camera and longer talk time . but now, cell phones need to be trendy with more MP3 features and which have the larger capacity for storing songs and videos to please and attract more and more youths.
Thus , in the above ways music has a strong impact on the youths, sometimes for good and sometimes for bad.

GOOD LISTENER IS A GOOD SPEAKER

Listening is an essential part of communication and is different from bearing. being a good and patient listener helps you not only solve many problems at work or home, but also to see the world through the eyes of other, thereby opening your understanding and enhancing your capacity for empathy listening is not the same as hearing. You can hear everything, but still not really be listening, and later on wonder what it was you heard!

When listening, you should be concentrating on what is being said. The human ears on what is being said. The human ears are designed so that if you are looking at something, your ears are pointed towards it, enabling you to hear best, listen for main ideas. A good listener is always a good speaker and later on he will become a good leader. It is an are to express our opinion in appreciable way. Those who possess this types of effective art of communication are unique in nature. If you come across a person, who knows more than you, be like a child and listen to him as attentively as you can. If you face someone with less knowledge than you have, be humble and strive to make him as good as or even better than you. This would id varied, beyond our imagination. There is always something to share, learn and teach. Become of powerful communication, so that others will attract towards you. Must of us are mot good listener.

A good listeners is always a good speaker because he thinks over what the had listened from great people and acts accordingly. He is more informed about the subject. so, he is in a much better position to speak what he has learnt too. So , we can  say a good listener is a good speaker too.        

TOURISM IN NEPAL: A FUTURE OPPURTUNITY

Simply, tourism is travel for recreation leisure or business purposes. The world tourism organization defines tourism as people who “travel to and stay in place outside their usual environment for more than twenty four hours and not more than one consecutive year for leisure, business and other purpose not related to the exercise of an activity remunerated from within the place visited”. The UN has derived different categories of tourism by combining the three basic forms of tourism: internal tourism, which comprises domestic tourism and outbound; national tourism which comprises domestic tourism: and international tourism, which consists of inbound tourism and outbound tourism.

Historically, the arrival of tourists to visit Nepal, was started a long period back. The number of tourists is increasing and decreasing in respect of national situation. The best way to experience Nepal’s unbeatable combination of natural beauty and cultural riches is to walk through them, Himalayan ranges of Nepal have been an attraction to many people, be they saint, philosophers, researchers and adventures. The world tourism industry is affected by four ‘ S’ sun, sand, sea, and sex. Nepal is a paradise for bird lovers with over 646 species of birds. Mountain flight, Rock climbing, Hot air ballooning, bungy jump, paragliding and riding on mountain bike are major adventures in Nepal. Rafting is also one of the best ways to explore the typical cross section of nature as well as ethno- cultural heritage of the country. The ultimate thrill of a bangy jump can now be experienced in Nepal at  one of the best sites that this sport can boast of anywhere in the world.

NATUER

   Look at the tallest mountain

Behind it the beautiful fountain.

How beautiful greenery of dense forest

The over flowing rivers not taking rest.

Hoe beautiful the chirping of birds

The pigles playing in the muds.

Look at the beautiful terraced hill

How pleasant do I feel.

A lot of adventure in each step

The nature creates own decimate.

Everyone should follow the rule of nature

Who doesn’t follow named as failure.

The nature which belongs to us

We are the development one first.

But do not decimate it further

If so, we are the blank window who eats its own mother.